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Wouldn’t You Agree? #6

Q: What are two surefire ways to identify someone with a personality disorder and someone you might want to minimize your contact with?

A: First, ask them what they need to get better at to have a better life (then steel yourself when they become negative or draw a blank).  Alternatively, after they complain or vent about something ask them: What (happened)? So what (is the problem you are having)? Now what (do you want to do about it)? The more ballistic they go, the more likely they have a personality disorder.

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2 Responses to “Wouldn’t You Agree? #6”

  1. Aaron Says:
    May 26th, 2012 at 9:33 am

    Agreed!

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