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		<title>Usable Insight &#8211; Maybe You&#8217;re Depressed</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you can’t say, “No,” because you don’t want to anger, hurt or upset someone; When you can’t say, “Yes,” because you don’t have anything left to give; When you can’t ask for help, because you can&#8217;t hear someone give another excuse for why they can&#8217;t and because you wouldn&#8217;t know what to ask for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>When you can’t say, “No,”<br />
because you don’t want to anger, hurt or upset someone;</strong></p>
<p><strong>When you can’t say, “Yes,”<br />
because you don’t have anything left to give;</strong></p>
<p><strong>When you can’t ask for help,<br />
because you can&#8217;t hear someone give another excuse for why they can&#8217;t<br />
</strong> <em><strong>and </strong></em><strong>because you wouldn&#8217;t know what to ask for anyway;</strong></p>
<p><strong>When you deal with the above by withdrawing<br />
and becoming sullen and irritable with your family;</strong></p>
<p><strong>AND when the cycle repeats itself daily<br />
and every day is Groundhog Day;</strong></p>
<p><strong>YOU are depressed.</strong></p>
<p><strong>If this speaks to you, what do you do? If’s it’s about someone you care about, how have you helped them?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Read More at: </strong><a href="http://docs.google.com/gview?a=v&amp;attid=0.1&amp;thid=12107d008fbe919b&amp;mt=application/pdf"><strong>Are You Anxious or Depressed?<br />
</strong> </a><strong><br />
Depression and Suicide see: </strong><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwybgVTh1i8"><strong>&#8220;I&#8217;m going to kill myself&#8221;</strong></a></p>
<p><strong>Don’t isolate, reach out and share your hurt and what you&#8217;re doing about it at: </strong><a href="http://twitter.com/areyoudepressed"><strong>Are You Depressed</strong></a></p>
<p><b>Resources for Depression:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/depression/complete-index.shtml">NIMH</a><br />
<a href="http://www.webmd.com/depression/default.htm">WebMD</a><br />
<a href="http://www.nami.org/Template.cfm?Section=By_Illness&#038;Template=/TaggedPage/TaggedPageDisplay.cfm&#038;TPLID=54&#038;ContentID=23039&#038;lstid=326">NAMI</a><br />
<a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/depression/DS00175">Mayo Clinic</a><br />
<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Depression">Wikipedia</a></b></p>



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