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	<title>Comments on: Usable Insight &#8211; Colin Powell, Respect and You</title>
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		<title>By: venetian blinds</title>
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		<dc:creator>venetian blinds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 10:33:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent job.</description>
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		<title>By: blinds</title>
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		<dc:creator>blinds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 10:33:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post, thanks</description>
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		<title>By: Cheap Meds</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheap Meds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 May 2010 18:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was so frustrated beacuse I couldn`t resolve this issue. Then I found your site in google and problem is solved. Thanks!</description>
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		<title>By: PianoTrade</title>
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		<dc:creator>PianoTrade</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 14:19:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;PianoTrade...&lt;/strong&gt;

Hello ;) Thanks heaps for this indeed!... if anyone else has anything, it would be much appreciated. Great website Super Piano Links http://www.en.Grand-Pianos.org Enjoy!...</description>
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<p>Hello <img src='http://markgoulston.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thanks heaps for this indeed!&#8230; if anyone else has anything, it would be much appreciated. Great website Super Piano Links <a href="http://www.en.Grand-Pianos.org" rel="nofollow">http://www.en.Grand-Pianos.org</a> Enjoy!&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 14:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Cheryl,
Colin Powell said,&quot;Excuse me—the person you love more than anyone is living in hell, and you don’t do whatever you can to get her out. Do you have a problem with that, sir?&quot;

By that he meant, &quot;I love my wife and she was deeply hurting and I did whatever I needed to do to help her hurt less.&quot; Instead of being defensive he stood up for a deeply held value he had, which was to take care of the ones you love when they can&#039;t do it for themselves. The power of his principles completely shamed the person asking the question.

The Dallas auditorium went completely silent with respect AND awe.  

Hope that clarifies your question.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Cheryl,<br />
Colin Powell said,&#8221;Excuse me—the person you love more than anyone is living in hell, and you don’t do whatever you can to get her out. Do you have a problem with that, sir?&#8221;</p>
<p>By that he meant, &#8220;I love my wife and she was deeply hurting and I did whatever I needed to do to help her hurt less.&#8221; Instead of being defensive he stood up for a deeply held value he had, which was to take care of the ones you love when they can&#8217;t do it for themselves. The power of his principles completely shamed the person asking the question.</p>
<p>The Dallas auditorium went completely silent with respect AND awe.  </p>
<p>Hope that clarifies your question.</p>
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		<title>By: Cheryl B.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheryl B.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 13:16:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So what did Colin Powell say?  Am I missing something here?</description>
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		<title>By: Phil Foley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil Foley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 06:32:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dr. Mark,
Thank You for reminding me of the powerful response from General Powell.
I&#039;ve been under pressue when depressed... --and moved to tears... (darn it!)
This example gives me the courage to tap my inner strength 
(that I know I have!).
Thank You again...
Phil Foley
P.S. I look forward to Your next Book!   :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Mark,<br />
Thank You for reminding me of the powerful response from General Powell.<br />
I&#8217;ve been under pressue when depressed&#8230; &#8211;and moved to tears&#8230; (darn it!)<br />
This example gives me the courage to tap my inner strength<br />
(that I know I have!).<br />
Thank You again&#8230;<br />
Phil Foley<br />
P.S. I look forward to Your next Book!   <img src='http://markgoulston.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mary K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 00:06:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had not hear this story before. I am in awe. What presence of mind and maturity are exhibited here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had not hear this story before. I am in awe. What presence of mind and maturity are exhibited here.</p>
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		<title>By: dartanyan</title>
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		<dc:creator>dartanyan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 23:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not giving into your emotions is one of Life&#039;s big challenges. The best advice I ever got in my life (and usually failed to follow was..&#039;If it feels good, don&#039;t do it !!&#039; I am not surprised by Colin Powell&#039;s reaction....I have always thought of him as deliberate and cool. Great story !!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not giving into your emotions is one of Life&#8217;s big challenges. The best advice I ever got in my life (and usually failed to follow was..&#8217;If it feels good, don&#8217;t do it !!&#8217; I am not surprised by Colin Powell&#8217;s reaction&#8230;.I have always thought of him as deliberate and cool. Great story !!</p>
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